A little background on Barbara…
Barbara Claypole White grew up in the English village of Turvey with big dreams of becoming a novelist. So, armed with a history degree from York University, she went to work in the London fashion industry. After she failed to snag the job of her dreams—and was wallowing in excessive self-pity—her boss sent her to New York on business. Flying home over the Atlantic, she fell for the handsome American professor who had picked her up at JKF Airport with a well-informed comment about English author P.D. James. (Fiction matters, people.)
Eighteen months later, Barbara embarked on a new life as a faculty spouse, freelance writer, and marketing director in a small Midwest college town. She also had a dirty little secret: she was writing a novel. Set against the backdrop of eighties fashion and the arrival of AIDS in London, it was spectacularly bad.
Then Barbara learned she was pregnant, and her husband was offered a distinguished professorship at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. The family moved to the forest outside the historic town of Hillsborough, and Barbara became a stay-at-home mom and a woodland gardener. Both passions would shape and guide her writing voice. She also started a new manuscript called Dogwood Days, but her writing ground to a halt when her young son was diagnosed with obsessive-compulsive disorder.
They entered into exposure therapy, and Barbara began her ongoing journey of educating herself about life with anxiety. Growing up, she had watched family members struggle with mental illness in secrecy and shame. She was determined her son would follow a different path. As he began to reclaim his life from irrational fear, Barbara returned to her manuscript. One day, a charismatic entrepreneur with severe OCD strolled into her imagination and refused to leave. His name was James Nealy.
Barbara rewrote Dogwood Days with James as her hero. When it won second place in the Carrie McCray Memorial Literary Awards for Novel First Chapter, she began to think, “Maybe.” She joined a nonfiction project for parents of children with invisible disabilities called Easy to Love But Hard to Raise, began blogging through the highs and lows of life with OCD, and landed an agent and a two-book deal. Dogwood Days became The Unfinished Garden and won the 2013 Golden Quill Contest for Best First Book. The In-Between Hour, which was chosen by the Southern Independent Booksellers Alliance as a Winter 2014 Okra Pick, followed. She also became an OCD advocate for the A2A Alliance, a nonprofit group that promotes advocacy over adversity.
Her third novel, The Perfect Son, was picked for Amazon’s Kindle First Program and became a Goodreads Choice Award 2015 Nominee for Best Fiction. Echoes of Family, another darkly quirky BCW tale, launched in 2016 and was chosen as a finalist for the Women’s Fiction Writers Association’s annual Star Award. Coming in January 2018, The Promise Between Us revisits Barbara’s passion for chipping away at stereotypes of OCD. She is currently hard at work on novel six (technically seven)…when she’s not waging war against squirrels and voles or gardening with a watchful eye open for Horace, the black snake who likes to scare the UPS guy.
But what of her brilliant son, formerly known on social media as the Beloved Teenage Delinquent? Now the Artist in Residence, he is still her muse and one of her trusted early readers. Dubbed the Warrior Poet by a local magazine when he was still in high school, he graduated from Oberlin College (Phi Beta Kappa) and is now a writer, a musician, and a trainee sound engineer. Barbara and the Prof firmly believe he will change the world.
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From the bestselling author of The Perfect Son comes a hopeful tale of redemption, renewal, and the promise of love.
Metal artist Katie Mack is living a lie. Nine years ago she ran away from her family in Raleigh, North Carolina, consumed by the irrational fear that she would harm Maisie, her newborn daughter. Over time she’s come to grips with the mental illness that nearly destroyed her, and now funnels her pain into her art. Despite longing for Maisie, Katie honors an agreement with the husband she left behind—to change her name and never return.
But when she and Maisie accidentally reunite, Katie can’t ignore the familiarity of her child’s compulsive behavior. Worse, Maisie worries obsessively about bad things happening to her pregnant stepmom. Katie has the power to help, but can she reconnect with the family she abandoned?
To protect Maisie, Katie must face the fears that drove her from home, accept the possibility of love, and risk exposing her heart-wrenching secret.
NOW TO THE GOOD STUFF…HER SECRETS…
Say you have a secret stash of treats around the house. Where would it be and what would you hide?
Easy answer. On my next trip back to England, I would bulk buy boxes of Cadbury HEROES—packed with miniature versions of my favorite chocolate treats—and hide them under the hurricane supplies in the basement pantry. Since my office is on the top floor of the house, I have to be extremely determined to make more than one trip a day to the basement. However, I realize this might not be enough to deter me, so I would also ask my husband, the Prof, to hide a box somewhere in his library. Not even I would dare ransack that space
What would be the perfect food and drink pairing for your book?
I would have to pick Southern barbeque with lots of hushpuppies, pulled pork, mac ‘n’ cheese, and fried okra. Jake Vaughan, one of my southern characters, might add a snifter of moonshine, but I’m a gin lover, so I would say a gin fizz.
Do you collect anything?
Other than books and Dr. Martens boots? Nope.
What’s one word your friends would use to describe you?
Kindness matters to me, so I hope they would say “kind.” The answer, however, would probably be, “You mean that mad English woman with an off-beat sense of humor?”
Tell us one secret behind the writing of your latest book:
The Promise Between Us sold off a paragraph—not a full proposal—which has never happened to me before. My publisher even wanted me to put aside the manuscript that was already in first draft and start writing this one. I wasn’t game to switch, and with hindsight, it was the right decision. In the midst of the second draft of The Promise Between Us, events in my personal life had a huge impact on my heroine’s arc. Had I written the novel a year earlier, I wouldn’t have done her story justice.
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I promised my almost nine year old daughter that I would work less at night, or not at all, so I can spend more time with her and the rest of my family. Apparently I was not doing well with the work/life balance and was working too many hours even after coming home from the office…
I made a promise to myself to have a positive attitude about the challenges I face as I’m getting older.
I made a promise to support, and encourage my son through a difficult transition period in his life, as he begins his new life journey, and finding his passion again for guitar playing.
This is the best promise you could make!
Thanks, Steena, and I love all these promises. <3
I’m loving them too!
I’ve made a promise to myself to not pry into my adult children’s lives. I will only ask questions if it’s really important.
that has to be so hard!
I promised my grandson that I would give him five dollars for every A he has on his report card.
How many has he gotten? (Great promise too!)
I made my self a promise to be Happy at work, even when things arn’t going well.
I love making promises to yourself!
I promised my boss I would make a “go” of our new retail initiative. Anybody want a job? :>)
what’s the job? 🙂
I made a promise to myself to try and talk less and listen more.
talk less and listen more…that’s so crucial!
I’ve made a promise with myself to listen and understand better.
“understand better”….that’s the key word.
I have been having some health issues lately and decided I need to change my lifestyle. I may have to undergo a liver transplant so I decided on my own that if this is to become a reality, I must change by starting to eating better and getting more exercise. Want to be proactive for what the future has in store for me. I have started exercising. I walk five to ten plus miles a day, do weight lifting, and a routine exercise program a friend and family member have assisted in getting me started, I am eating smaller portions of food and snacking has become a thing of the past. I drink lots of water, around 64 ounces a day, eat more fruits and raw vegetables and no fried foods of any kind. i am becoming a healthier me and feel much better and have more strength than in the past. Feel really good and will be ready to fight off whatever the future holds for me.
Changing your lifestyle is the best promise you can make when it’s about you and your health! Sounds like you’ve got a good grasp on what you need to do…I hope its working!
I made a promise to get in shape. I’ve been working out with a trainer 3x / week since I returned from WFWA retreat. We’re mostly boxing and I LOVE it.
Way to go Cindy! Proud of your decision. Keep it up. It will pay off in the long run. Better health for a better you.
Thanks Barry. FYI. Your bookS are in the mail.
That’s awesome Cindy!